No. Not because we are.. Galat jawab...
I once had this discussion with one of my colleagues Neeraj Sharma and he said, we think we feel like a loser for not making our plans of life come true.
But in reality, we feel let down because we fail ourselves everyday.
Then we start thinking that if we cant accomplish our short term goals, how will we fulfill our long term goals in life?
So then let's make our smaller dreams come true first..
But you got to promise me, that with each win, you will cherish and applaud yourself for the achievement, however small it is, it is the first step..
You will thank yourself and celebrate that moment
What do you wish to do?
- Have a Work- Life Balance? (plan your day tomorrow and leave 15 min earlier than usual)
- Want to be heard(Too shy to speak, express your opinion say to a discussion online/ News portal)
- Feel taken for granted(Speak up.Don't drag. Keep It Short & Sweet. Thank the person for listening.)
- Want to travel, but got no time?( Go to a nearby place on the weekend, even if it is stone throw away, have a small picnic if you wish and feel good for those hours you spent)
- Wish to write a book (Write a short story, don't overthink, whatever comes to your mind in 5 min & put it up online..)
- Wish to be a Chef( make a dish..nothing grand.. add your own twist..Give it a wacky name..Clickity click,put it online :D)
- Photography equipment is too costly(Innovate, photography is half about composition, click a new angle, new perspective, share)
- Wish to be slimmer and fitter( Brisk walk for ten minutes today)
- Wish to be Pithy( Take a moment.Gather your thoughts & then express)
- Whatever your dream be(Take a toddler step of it today)
Feel the sense of achievement gushing through your veins,as your face relaxes and throws your head back in joy & pride as you win today.
With each celebrated win, your mind feels great and being the narcissistic bug that it is, it will come up with newer ideas, way and paths to multiply your feeling of win and prolong it longer than yesterday.
Just get started. Don't try to conquer the world at the first try,
Just Take the 1st step ...
So what will you do today?
Comments
One question are you doing all of this things... :P
@;TannU..yes Mr Anonymous I know you like that idea :P..a few days back I started with my own list and yes I feel happy and exhilarated..Still inspite of the life we have..temme about the first step U will take today
As for me, I'm going to check out the stuffs on my To Do list that I have accomplished and be at peace :)
Why do we think it to be so hard, when winning each day is this easy?
Whereas your earlier posts are subtly suggestive, this one has the feel of a LinkedIn types article.
You have an interesting and heartfelt topic, but I think I like the earlier feel better.
We as humans are well aware of these things. But we (or some of us) as procrastinating, hedonistic, chaos-loving, uncertainty-worshiping, so-called humans usually are, we are just trying to be.
Dolly.. Happy For you :D
Nano.. cuz we are afraid we will fail..I think.. :)
Mukul: There are times in Life when we hit a dead end..at those times 3 simple steps do help when we are too numb to understand the subtle message in poetry..Thank U for your suggestion.:)
K.. Aptly Said. :D
Surinder.. Thank U :D
Dolly.. Happy For you :D
Nano.. cuz we are afraid we will fail..I think.. :)
Mukul: There are times in Life when we hit a dead end..at those times 3 simple steps do help when we are too numb to understand the subtle message in poetry..Thank U for your suggestion.:)
K.. Aptly Said. :D
Surinder.. Thank U :D